Tuesday, 19 November 2013

Planning For Guests- Series


Planning for Guests-Series



Meal Plan
Everyone enjoys some moments with beloved ones. We spend most of our time with our family but once in a while the joy of having visitors is something we look forward to. I personally take it as an honor when someone leaves their special home just to be with us. Throughout my life, I have learnt that planning is a day to day tool that is essential in oiling what we do.
One of the things that I take pride in is receiving my visitors or guests and one of the greatest things that makes receiving them an enjoyable experience for me is prior planning and organizing. I plan around the great Shona (my native language) proverb (Ukama igasva huno zadziswa nekudya- relationships are reinforced at the table)- Meal plan.
Meal plan is a great way to enjoy your visitors. I find it easier to plan when I know the time frame I will be hosting visitors. When visitors go beyond a week, I make sure the first week is planned and the period beyond that my guests will enjoy our family routine but still seasoned with our warm welcome.
Below are the benefits that accrues with Meal Planning

·        Resources: Planning enables you to work within available resources. It eradicates the stress of having to figure out what to cook and it allows you to plan around what you can afford.
Remember that receiving your visitors and making them feel at home has nothing to do with money/riches but has all to do with the heart. You can play around with what you have to make your guests feel at home. It's the heart's attitude that counts.

·        Confidence: planning for your guests enables you to be confident and in control of your household. It makes everyone's work easier from your helpers to every family member. I personally find it creating a cohesion whereby family members volunteer their best. In the past two months I was carried away with joy when our 12 year old boy woke up earlier to wash our guests' car followed by ours. When I asked him why he washed the guest car first, he replied he knew the guests were leaving in the morning.

·        Empowerment: having to do meal plans empowers you with a number of choices to make. You will put effort to put the first meal plan, second and third. What follows thereafter is just  rescheduling of what you already have. Usually when I do a meal plan for my guest I write the name of the guest and the meal plan, print it out and stick it on a hidden place where my guest will not access it. This means that if you happen to have the same guests sometime in the future, you will not give them the same meal plan. You will look into your meal plans file or saved files on your computer and choose something different.


·        Control: It results in a well organized environment that brings out the beauty of the home and the host. The host is stress free and has energy to attend to her guests. I attach this to a fraction of the Proverbs 31 Woman. Her husband is confident and trust her with the management of the affairs of their household.

Below is an example of a two day Meal Plan
Friday
Saturday
Sunday
Monday



Breakfast

Cornflakes
Eggs
Mince meat
Bread
Sliced tomato


Breakfast

Cornflakes
Cake slice
Fruit (available fruit is ok)
Tea


Breakfast

Cornflakes
Egg
Sausage
Fruit salad

Guests Leave


Lunch

Starch: Potatoes in soup
Meat: Fish
Vegetable: cabbage salad
Desert: Mango/ papaya

Lunch

Starch: Bread Rolls
Stir fry vegetable
Cheese
Juice
Tea


Dinner

Starch: Rice
Meat: Tinashe's chicken, Sausage
Vegetable: Lettuce salad

Desert-Halloween cake

Guests arrive

Dinner

Starter-Butternut soup
Starch: Spaghetti
Meat: Roast Steak, Pork chops

Steamed vegetable

Desert- Fruit Salad

Dinner

Starch: Sadza
Meat: Traditional chicken, Beef stew
Vegetable: Spinach

Dessert- Malva pudding


My encouragement for hosting my guest is rooted in  the word of God.

Hebrews 13:2 NIV
Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some people have entertained angels without knowing it.

Hebrews 13:2 Bible in Basic English (BBE)
Take care to keep your house open: because in this way some have had angels as their guests, without being conscious of it.

Be blessed

Naomi Chitambira